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http://my.yahoo.matchmovegames.com/newsarticle/personal-finance-basics-for-grads

tiga tahun lepas di mana saya menuntut di UTAR (Universiti Tunku Abdul Rahman), bukan UNITAR.. tapi UTAR.. xD

从不认识大家的我们，直到建立起厚厚犹如study manual 一样厚的友谊..
然后 一转眼 再转眼 三转眼 三年了。

又是时候说拜拜，说实在 我还蛮不舍得的。虽然嘴巴还是死撑着，这是人生必过的一个阶层，没有必要舍不得还是什么什么。。但是我真的真的好不舍哦。所谓的overnight session，特别珍惜。谢谢你们的捧场，也在event的第二天留下来。打从心底，我真的好开心哦。event结束后，我顿时脑袋空了。做什么好呢？收拾也不是，发呆也不是。好想哭 哦。。。


还满完整的T3在帮我们的“司机”aka“大喇叭”庆生。^^


我的“好姐妹” Left： 小妹 aka Ella ； Right：大妹 aka Selina
谢谢你们把我的不完整变成“一点点”的完整。 =p



T3的四个女生，应该也是唯一一张跟你们合照吧？？



非常感谢 Anna 帮我们拍这张照片。好值得回味的一张。
其实从小，我很想要有一部那款相机，拍了立刻拿照片。 lol



也是一张Anna的杰作。。。 哈哈。谢谢


哈哈， AS的美女～ 能跟她拍照是何等荣幸啊。。（其实也拍满多张的。嘿嘿）

哈哈， 我的”大姐“。。 才发现 诶，原来我没有跟小妹拍到两个人的合照。。oops =X


左拥右抱。 =X

Sporty Vanessa..=D

Always Jason punya May Ling.. jangan lah always Jason... Jason tu banyak EMO tau.. lol

如果要upload上来blog的话，我觉得我还有很多张要upload。。不如大家来我的facebook 看看吧。。。哪里有更多。。我只是选几张出来吧了。。

当时我记得我要在我的blog写很多很多东西，可是现在我能想的和我能写的 就只有 不舍 好不舍 想你们 好想你们

这么多位 所谓的 ”猪狗朋友“ 谢谢你们 让我的这三年 添了一分色彩
当让 也从你们身上 学了些 我没有的东西 或者是 让我有的东西 更上一层楼

衷心祝福你们 安康

屋子是旧的，灰尘是新的。
墙垣是旧的，蕨类是新的。
日记是旧的，心事是新的。

秋千是旧的，孩童是新的。
大树是旧的，落叶是新的。
照片是旧的，感触是新的。

园丁是旧的，花儿是新的。
朽木是旧的，蘑菇是新的。
泪腺是旧的，眼泪是新的。

车站是旧的，乘客是新的。
故事是旧的，演员是新的。
人儿是旧的，伤口是新的。

wanna see how my hometown looks like?
go to my link on your right hand side...

click on myhometown serian.. and you will find out.. ^^

a big applause to the creator of the blog..

A story worth sharing.. which i get it from my ex-school teacher...

Most of the time, when we meet something difficult, some of us might tend to give up.. or keep on trying...

For me, i would give up more than i keep on trying...

Consider the following:

Carrots, Eggs, & Coffee

A carrot, an egg, and a cup of coffee...You will never look at a cup of coffee the same way again.



Emma went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so difficult for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up, She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as one problem was solved, a new one arose.

Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to boil. In the first she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil; without saying a word.

In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl. Turning to her daughter, she asked, ' Tell me what you see.'

'Carrots, eggs, and coffee,' she replied.

Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did and noted that they were soft. The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.

Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee. The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma. The daughter then asked, 'What does it mean, mother?'

Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the same adversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently. The carrot went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.. The egg had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened. The ground coffee beans were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.

'Which are you?' she asked her daughter. 'When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

Think of this: Which am I? Am I the carrot that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?

Am I the egg that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff? Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and hardened heart?

Or am I like the coffee bean? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you. When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?

May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human and enough hope to make you happy.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way. The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past; you can't go forward in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling.

Live your life so at the end, you're the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.

May we all be COFFEE!!!!!!!

After the story, feel like I was like Emma...
"It was too difficult for me.. wanted to give up.."
However, her mother do use a very good example.. of coffee...
other than coffee, we can use tea also right? =p

Recall back 25/07/2008, we didn't manage to celebrate with him... due to Discrete Maths.... but actually we can celebrate it after class... why i didn't think of it that time... kind of regret can't celebrate it... BUT FOR THIS YEAR... it's a YES.... yeah!!!

25/07/2009, Kyoong's birthday... and of course... it's a BIG DAY... what do we need to do??? CELEBRATE!!!! abor? what do you want to do?

At first, the planning was going to Green Box for K since there will be free flow soft drinks meaning unlimited... who don't want... unfortunately, all rooms are fully occupied... we had no choice but have to go low yat red box... but still consider good(hope so).... WHY? we get our very BIG ROOM for the very FIRST time...

Of course the star of the day need to take some photo...

After K, we went for Berjaya Time Square(TS)... for movie... Ice Age 3 and Harry Potter... but before we go for movie.. Small gift for the star first...

Looking at the card....from his face, i can see that he is smiling... lol

after reading the wishes from everyone, of course need to *snap snap*

After movie, walk around TS... wah...got don't know what show in front of TS... Don't talk so much... go and have some *snap* *snap*..lol

With the TALL guy

With a pretty modal...

Poh Tatt can't afford to lose... Must take some also...

FYI: birthday boy get a BIG BIG cup of milk tea for FREE at Wong Kok... isn't that BIG??

After dinner, of course.... have a to be a bit formal...=p
Happy Birthday!!! Here's your cake... Like it?

Wondering what are the wishes that he makes?

Small Present for Him...Like the present?

While waiting for Jian Quan, of course need to take some beautiful pictures to keep...

in front of Pavillion....

It take us whole day... here and there.... wondering whether the star enjoy it or not???
first of all, SORRY to the star... because
(i) no green box... and have to go to low yat...
(ii) first time watch movie need to sit seperately..

Very Sorry, I cannot make this as perfect as possible... causing you lot's of trouble running here and there... GOMENASAI..... hope there won't be next time...

Last but not least... thanks to those who are involved in this...thanks to Jason, thanks to Poh Tatt... thanks to those who wrote the birthday wishes to him... thanks to Jian Quan also for his Avanza... haha... THANKS.... THANKS... THANKS....

“很难啦，给点容易的好不好？”
“不能啦，考试不见老师给你容易的！”
“哟。。。”

有没有想过或者希望过老师给的题目容易点，又或者是考试制度放松一点，分数给多一点？？

鲤鱼们一直都想跳过龙门。因为，只要一跳过龙门，他们就会从普普通通的鱼变成超凡脱俗的龙了。

可是龙门太高，它们一个一个累得精疲力尽，摔打得鼻青脸肿，却没有一个跳得过去。它们一起向龙王请求，让龙王吧龙门降低一些。龙王不答应。鲤鱼们就跪在龙王面前不起来。它们跪了九九八十一天，龙王终于被感动了，答应了它们的要求。鲤鱼们一个个轻轻松松地跳过了龙门，兴高采烈的变成了龙。

不久，变成了龙的鲤鱼们发现，大家都成了龙，跟大家都不是龙的时候好像并没有什么两样。于是，它们又一起找龙王，说出自己心中的疑惑。

龙王笑道：“真正的龙门是能降低的。你们想要找到真正龙的感觉，还是去跳那座没有降低高度的龙门吧！”

降低标准，只能是自己骗自己。想龙门一样，真正的成功之门是不能降低的。要想找到真正成功的感觉，还是去打开那扇没有降低高度的门吧！

一样的道理，要得到真正的成功，走捷径是行不通的。。怎样都是脚踏实地来的好。。。

这篇文章来自『诗华日报』

对自己的行为负责

从前，有一个人在瓮里盛着谷子。他家里养的骆驼，把头伸到瓮里吃谷子，退不出来。骆驼的头出不来，给主人带来极大的苦恼和忧愁。

有个老人前来告诉他说：“你不要发愁了，我教你一个退出来的办法。你采用我的办法，一定马上就能得到解决。你立即砍掉骆驼的头，它就会自动出来。” 主人听信了老人的话，用到砍了骆驼的头。

已经杀了骆驼，仍不解决问题，又打破了瓮，才取了出来。这个蠢人遭到众人的讥笑。

对自己的行为负责！当你陷入两难境地的时候不要轻易听取别人的意见，应该通过理智的大脑分析得到科学的决策再去执行。

砍掉骆驼的头，“它”就会自动出来？？ 已经卡在那边了。。要“它”怎么出？？又要打破瓮才能取出来。。。骆驼死了，瓮破了，简直是赔了夫人又折兵啊。。。

轻松一下，来则笑话
妈妈：“都几点了，还在赖床，快迟到了！”
无名：“人家讨厌去上学嘛，同学们都不喜欢我，老师们都讨厌我。”
妈妈：“可是今天是开学，你是校长不能不去啊！”

是不是被“炸到”类？？
哈哈

除掉失败的意念

世界著名的走钢丝人纪念日曾说：“在钢丝上才是我真正的人生，其他都只是等待。”他就是一这种信心来走钢丝，每一次都非常成功。

1978年，这位成功的走钢丝人在波多黎各表演时，从75尺高的钢丝上掉下来死了。这令人不可思议。后来，走钢丝人的华伦达太太说出了原因。在表演前的三个月，华伦达开始怀疑自己 “这次可能掉下去。”
他时常问太太：“万一掉下去怎么办？” 他花了很多精神在避免掉下来上，而不是在走钢丝上。

假如你有坏的预感，要告诉自己“不可能有这种事”， “绝对不会”，潜意识就会全盘吸收你的指示，一旦有了危机，它会替你处理的和平常的反应一样好，不会失常。所以，你要想办法把 “ 一定会失败”兴意念排除掉，换成“一定会成功”。

一位年轻人在岸边钓鱼，坐在他旁边的一位老人也在守望者一根长长的鱼杆。

一段时间过去了，奇怪的是，老人不时就能钓到一条银光闪闪的鱼，可是年轻人的浮标却没有动静。年轻人迷惑不解地问老人：“我们钓鱼的地方相同，您也没有用什么特别的诱饵，为什么我就毫无所获呢？”

老人微笑着说：“这就是你们年轻人的通病，喜欢浮躁，情绪不稳定，动不动就烦乱不安。我钓鱼的时候，常常达到了浑然忘我的地步，我只是静静守候，不像你时不时东东鱼竿，叹息一两声。我这边的鱼根本感觉不到我的存在，所以，它们要我的鱼饵，而你的举动和心态只会把鱼吓走，当然就钓不到鱼了。”

钓鱼这一小小的事件却蕴含这深刻的哲理。有的时候，我们输给对方的原因不是因为我们外在条件比他们差，而是我们没有调整好心态，没有控制好情绪，一切都流于浮躁。。

朋友们，看了有何见解？
最新的这两篇（i）别跌倒在自己的优势上（ii）别让情绪把鱼吓跑 都来自『诗华日报』，我觉得这两篇很有意思。。所以就特地放上来与大家分享。。

三个旅行者同时住进了一家旅店。早上出门的时候，一个旅行者带了一把伞，另一个旅行者拿了一根拐杖，第三个旅行者什么也没有拿。

晚上归来的时候，拿伞的旅行者淋得浑身是水，拿拐杖的旅行者跌得满身是伤，而第三个旅行者却安然无恙。

拿伞的旅行者说：“当大雨来的时候，我因为有了伞，就大胆地在雨中走，却不知怎么淋湿了；但我走在泥泞坎坷的路上时，我因为没有拐杖，所以走得非常仔细，专拣平稳的地方走，所以没有摔伤。”

拿拐杖的旅行者说：“当大雨来临的时候，我因为没有带雨伞，便拣能躲雨的地方走，所以没有淋湿；当我走在泥泞坎坷的路上时，我便用拐杖拄着走，却不知为什么常常跌跤。”

第三个旅行者听后笑笑，说：“这就是为什么你们拿伞的湿，拿拐杖的跌伤了，而我却安然无恙的原因。当大雨来时，我躲着走，当路不好时我仔细的走，所以我没有淋湿也没有跌伤，你的失误就在於你们有凭借的优势，认为有了优势少了忧患。”

许多时候，我们不是跌打在自己的缺陷上，而是跌倒在自己的优势上，因为缺陷常能给我们以提醒，而优势却常使我们忘乎所以。

看了这篇文章，大家有什么感想？

你的优点，你的缺点？你知道吗？每个人自己都有自己的优点，有自己的缺点。。。优点，就应该让它更闪亮；至于缺点嘛。。就得改正改正咯。。

这里有一则故事跟大家分享：

一个穷困潦倒的青年，流浪到巴黎，期望父亲的朋友能帮助自己找到一份摸生的差事。
“数学精通吗？”父亲的朋友问到。青年摇摇头。
“历史，地理怎样？”青年还是摇摇头。
“那法律呢？”青年无奈地垂下头。
父亲的朋友接连发问，青年只能摇摇头告诉对方 ———自己连丝毫的优点也找不出来。
“那你先把地址写下来吧。”青年写下了自己的住址，转生要走，却被父亲的朋友一把拉住了：
“你的名字写得很漂亮嘛，这就是你的优点啊，你不该只满足找一份糊口的工作。”
数年后，青年果然写出享誉世界的经典作平。他就是家喻户晓的法国18世纪著名作家大仲马。

世界许多平凡之辈，都要一些小优点，但由于自卑常被忽略了。其实，每个平淡的生命中，
都蕴涵着 座丰富金矿，只要肯挖掘，就会挖出令自己都惊讶不已的宝藏。。。。。。

1+1会等于多少？ 2？ 还是什么？很多时候，我们都会被 1+1 给耍了。。

在这里，想与大家分享一则笑话。。从『诗华日报』读来的。。

1+1=？
有一天，老师问小明说：“1+1=？”
小明：“不知道”
老师：“回家问你的家人”
小明回到家就问妈妈，刚好妈妈在洗碗。
妈妈：“不要吵，不要吵”
小明又去问爸爸，爸爸刚好在看新闻。
爸爸：“美国总统”
接着，小明去问姐姐，刚巧她在洗澡。
姐姐：“真爽，真爽”
后来，小明又去问哥哥，哥哥在跟他说话
哥哥：“甜心，我们走吧。。”
小明：“原来如此”

隔天，老师又问小明：“1+1=？”
小明：“不要吵，不要吵”
老师：“你跟谁学的?”
小明：“美国总统”
老师生气的打了小明一巴掌。
小明：“真爽，真爽”
老师更生气了，叫小明跟他去校长室。
小明：“甜心，我们走吧！”

i just read a piece of article from a local newspaper[联合日报],

according to the article, japanese have the interest on knowing and discovering their personality through their blood type... some of the employers also wanted to know the blood type of candidates who wish to get a job before they can employ them... wow... they are looking in this matter too...

by knowing your blood type, you know your personality.. anyway, it's just a reference...
believe it or not, have it your way!

for the person who has blood type O, they are the natural leader.





Positive qualities:
Ambitious, Trendsetter, Independent, Loyal, Athletic, Robust, Passionate and Self-confident. Negative qualities:
Arrogant, Vain, Jealous, Insensitive and Ruthless.
Compatibility:
O is most compatible with blood types AB and O.
Famous people with the same blood type:
Ronald Reagan, Queen Elizabeth II, John Lennon, Paul Newman, Elvis Presley, Gerald Ford, Mikhail Gorbachev, Al Capone.


for the person who has blood type A, they are the perfectionist.



Positive qualities:
Reserved, Patient, Sensitive, Responsible and Punctual.
Negative qualities:
Obsessive, Stubborn, Conservative and Tense.
Compatibility:
A is most compatible with blood types A and AB.
Famous people with the same blood type:
George H. W. Bush, O.J. Simpson, Britney Spears, Alan Alda, Adolf Hitler, Lyndon B. Johnson, Richard Nixon.

for the person who has blood type AB, they are the rationalist.




Positive qualities:
Popular, Sociable, Cool and Controlled.
Negative qualities:
Forgetful, Critical, Indecisive, Irresponsible and Self-centered.
Compatibility:
AB is compatible with all other blood types. (A, B, AB, and O)
Famous people with the same blood type:
John F. Kennedy, Marilyn Monroe, Mick Jagger, Thomas Edison, Jackie Chan.

for the person who has blood type B, they are the individualist.

Positive qualities:
Creative, Passionate, Strong, Animal loving, Optimistic and Flexible.
Negative qualities:
Wild, Unsociable, Critical, Indecisive, Unpredictable and Unforgiving.
Compatibility:
B is most compatible with blood types B and AB.
Famous people with the same blood type:
Jack Nicholson, Luciano Pavarotti, Tom Selleck, Mia Farrow, Paul McCartney, Leonardo DiCaprio.

SO, after reading.. how do you feel?? is it 100% correct?? leave your comment... i would love to know your opinion...